There are times we need to ask ourselves questions and answer them truthfully.
What I’m talking about today is the reason some ladies will leave everyone they know in a state and go to the city to stay without a job or handwork.
Personaly I don’t see why anyone will love to leave his or her beloved family to spend time in another part of the country without a genuine reason.
Their(ladies) reasons most times are, They want money, spouse, They need to be free from parents and everyone they know, a job etc but they don't know that in so doing they have pierced themselves through with many sorrows.
Thats why you see them Being used in the relationships, Guys see them as spare parts element and not wife materials, the very unfortunate ones are being killed for ritual purposes.
It breaks my heart to see the pitiable life they live here.
You see them cooking and washing for guys. Some are even married without their parent's knowledge. On sundays they would be praying for a guy to ask them to cook for him so that at least their would be something to eat. Crazy things like that.
There are those that have moved into the permanent site(Prostitution).
There is one around here, the only time she sleep at home is when she is seeing her period. No job, oh sorry, she is got a job. Her job is her relationship, she is got more than five guys that are dating her.
And there some that date sugar-mummies(lesbian sugar-mummies).
Typing the stuffs they do here just to survive will definitely give me keypadtriosis.
I know that some of them do succeed and make money but every other thing seems to be against them.
My questions are:
1: Why leave your village when you know that you don't have anything serious to do in the city?
2: Is the money worth what they pass through?
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